by Jane Parent
Sometimes teenagers find themselves dealing with awkward situations, and they want to get out of it without telling an obvious lie or making it even more awkward. Especially when it’s your teenager’s friends or peers creating the uncomfortable situation. But how to do it in a way that allows your teenager to save face with their peers? To find out, we asked some creative, tech-savvy teenagers for their tips for using technology to make a clean getaway. Whether they’re avoiding peer pressure or just want to leave, pass these on to your teenagers today.
Dealing with Uncomfortable Situations: Using Tech
1. Invent a Crisis.
“If I’m in a certain situation that makes me uncomfortable,” says Haley, “I will try to discreetly gather my things up and tell people that I really have to be home at a certain time.”
2. Send a Code Word.
Lillie’s a fan of the fake urgent phone call. “I have a code word with my friend Alexis,” she reveals. “If I text the code word to her, she’ll call me right away—and I can take the phone call and then say I need to leave right away.”
3. Get a Text from “Mom.”
Text yourself. “When I find myself in an awkward or uncomfortable situation,” reveals Sue, “I will change my name in my phone’s contact list to “Mom” then text myself saying ‘You need to come home right now’ for some made-up reason. That way, I can casually show the text and just say I have to get home.”
4. Blame Your Parents.
Blame your parents. “When I have to get out of an awkward situation,” says Tara, “I always blame my parents and make them look like they’re being really overprotective so I can get out of something more easily. My favorite excuse? I say I forgot to walk the dog and that my parents will kill me if they find out.”
Jane Parent is senior editor of Your Teen.