Staycation Ideas with Teenagers
By Jane Parent
Sometimes vacation just isn’t in the cards, perhaps because of sports with “optional” practices you really can’t miss, jobs, or college visits. Or maybe it’s not in your budget right now; travel costs can add up fast, especially when vacation includes airfare, hotel, and food for your adult-sized eating machines. But that doesn’t mean that you can’t still have a great vacation at home as a family. With a little planning and preparation (and the comfort of sleeping in your own bed at night), a “staycation” might be the answer. Here are staycation ideas for an intentional time of fun and relaxation.
1. First, set some ground rules. The point of a staycation is to feel as much like a family getaway as possible, so decide in advance what your family will and will not do during this time. That could include limiting screen time, phone usage, email, cooking, and chores.
2. Next, decide just what you will do on your staycation. Hold a family meeting to discuss your staycation ideas and get input. If you like spontaneity, consider putting everyone’s ideas into a hat, then picking one activity each day. If your family prefers more structure, use your ideas to develop an itinerary for the week. Set a reasonable budget. Get your home ready before the staycation starts. Clean, shop, and get the laundry done in advance. Get some takeout menus. Cook a few family favorites and put them in the freezer. Get everything ready so once your staycation starts, you can all relax.
Think of a few activities teens would enjoy:
- Enjoy a spa day with manicures and pedicures.
- Get a group for laser tag or paintball.
- Take a trip to an outlet mall.
- Go geocaching.
- Try indoor rock climbing, a challenge rope course, or zip lining.
- Take a day trip to a nearby town or national park.
- Try a new restaurant.
- Build a fire pit, s’mores. Add a movie for great family time.
3. Be accommodating. Teens can be very busy people, so their staycation ideas might just involve sleeping—and that’s fine. “Downtime is very important. If your usual morning routine is very hectic because of work and school, then I try to do the opposite of normal,” says Samantha McGarry, author and parenting blogger. “Let them have a lazy morning, and plan an activity for later in the day. To set a vacation attitude, I try to be more flexible and to say yes more than no.”
Jane Parent is a freelance writer in Northeast Ohio and frequent contributor to Your Teen Magazine for Parents.